September 7, 2025
Luke 14:25-33
I moved to New Jersey from Ohio in the summer after my freshman year in high school. I was a fairly good trombone player when I was in high school and it wasn’t long before my new friends in the band were asking me to join a drum and bugle corps in Eatontown called the Royales. I didn’t even know what a drum and bugle corps was, and I had zero interest in joining it. But, one day, a group of my friends from band knocked on the door at my house and asked me to come with them to a Royales practice, just to see what it was all about. I went with them, and once I got there, I was told that if I wanted a ride home, I had to join; so I was basically kidnapped. But joining that corps was, and remains, one of my life’s best decisions. Not only did I meet my wife there, but the lessons that I learned about teamwork and about the depth of commitment required to become as good at something as you can possibly be are lessons that have served me well for a lifetime. I marched in that corps from age 15 to age 18… just 3 seasons, but the impact that that experience had on my life is far out of proportion to the amount of time that I spent doing it.
By the time I was in my senior year, I was practicing either my trombone or my bugle 6 hours a day and I was an all-state trombone player. In college I had the privilege of playing professionally as a studio musician, but there is no doubt in my mind that if it weren’t for my experience in that drum corps I never would have become the musician that I became. Why? Because being a part of that organization taught me how to prioritize; how to make music the one thing that I worked on to the exclusion of the everyday distractions that most teens face. Anybody remember that great teen club that was in Shrewsbury in the early 70’s? I became a member and really enjoyed going there, but after I joined the corps, I never went there again. I ran track, but I quit the track team, I didn’t really have a social life outside of the corps, and I even got into trouble a few times for ditching school events in favor of a corps contest or exhibition.
We were a mediocre corps when I joined. Three years later, with a corps full of committed, hardworking kids, and great adult leadership, we took 2nd place in the World Open Class B contest and finished 3rd in the NJ State Chapionships, beating some pretty good corps. During those three years a lot of kids joined and then quit. Practices were often marathon affairs, marching in the EAI parking lot long after dark with car headlights lighting the way so we could see where we were marching… kind of. The ones who weren’t committed didn’t stay. The ones who were, did, with the end result that we became a pretty good corps. It was one of the best experiences of my life.
So, why am I telling you all this story today? I’m telling you this because today’s lesson is all about commitment. Our story tells us that Jesus had a large group accompanying Him. And it’s interesting that Luke chooses to use the Greek word Συνεπορεύοντο (sin-ee-poor-you-ontoe), and that he used this instead of the Greek word, Δεῦτε (Deu-tuh). Every time in the Bible that Jesus says to someone “Follow me” the Greek word that He uses is Δεῦτε. The root of Δεῦτε is “duo” and the word describes two people doing something together, or two people working towards a common purpose. But Συνεπορεύοντο means simply to accompany someone or to travel with someone. Can we see the difference?
Those of us who are following the TV show “The Chosen” have seen what happens when Jesus bids someone to follow Him. Andrew, Peter, Simon the Zealot, and Matthew all dropped their lives right on the spot, walked away from what they were doing, and pretty much instantly became disciples. It was a sudden and monumental change in each of their lives. And so it’s important for us to see the distinction between following someone and just accompanying them. And this is especially important as it relates to following Jesus.
At some point in our story, I guess Jesus turned around and saw this huge crowd behind Him, but the thing is, Jesus knew their hearts… every single one of them. He knew who was accompanying Him just in hopes of seeing a miracle. He knew who was accompanying Him in hopes of being healed. He knew who was accompanying Him in hopes of watching Him overthrow the Romans and establishing Israel as prominent among the nations. And so, Jesus stopped, and He gave all of those who were accompanying Him a reality check.
“If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.” Something tells me that this would not be a very effective approach in a door-to-door evangelism drive. It also seems incongruous that the One who admonishes us to love our enemies would be asking us to hate those closest to us. But we need to understand that Jesus is using an ancient Hebrew idiom that was not talking about hate as an emotion but rather was using the word “hate” comparatively. Brown tells us that, “In Genesis 29:30-31, we hear that Jacob loved Rachel more than Leah and that Leah was “hated” by Jacob. A similar use of [this] Hebrew word for “hate” occurs in Deuteronomy 21:15-17 where [discussing inheritances] it is also clear that the issue is one of preference or allegiance. This coheres with what we have seen in Luke and Matthew. Jesus is not calling his followers to hate their families in terms of emotional response; instead, he is calling for undivided loyalty to himself, even above family loyalties” [1]
And this isn’t the first time that Jesus has said something that caused those accompanying (not following) to walk away. Jesus was not interested in the quantity of His followers, But He was deeply interested in changing the lives of His followers, and that is not something that Jesus could accomplish without the active participation of those following Him. And so, here Jesus tells two parables that are designed to ask those who are accompanying Him to consider the true cost of following Him and whether or not they are willing to pay that cost.
Several years ago, a company petitioned the city of Asbury Park to allow them to take over part of a city street and to build a building where that street had been. I don’t really know the particulars of that endeavor, but I do know that this project, called the Esperanza, was half built before it ended up being abandoned by the builder, blocking off a city street for years. Does anybody remember that building? In the middle of the road? According to the builders, construction was halted due to a dip in the housing market, but one can’t help but compare the Esperanza with Jesus’ first parable today where Jesus tells us that one needs to count the cost before beginning any project. Our story tells us that Jesus said, “When he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him.” And I would imagine that that half-built building in Asbury Park was a major embarrassment to the builder for quite a few years.
In the 2nd parable today, Jesus talks about a king trying to determine whether he has the wherewithal to defeat a superior force that is coming against him. These two parables appear to be somewhat alike, but Morris tells us that there is a critical difference between the two. “The two parables are similar, but they make slightly different points.” Morris says, “The builder of the tower is free to build or not as he chooses, but the king is being invaded. He must do something. In the first parable Jesus says, ‘sit down and reckon whether you can afford to follow me’. In the second He says ‘sit down and reckon whether you can afford to refuse my demands’. Both ways of looking at it are important”. [2]
And so it is that Jesus speaks to the crowd that accompanies Him and speaks to us as well. Are we willing to do more than just accompany Him? Are we willing to sit down and consider the cost of following Him, AND are we willing to sit down and consider the cost of not following Him? Garland tells us that, “What the text does not spell out is that one will lose everything anyway whatever one’s choice.” You can’t take it with you, right? “The only question is whether one will lose all as a follower of Jesus and for the sake of God’s reign, or as one who refuses to follow and obey. Which, in other words, is the more promising course of action?” [3]
We, as Christians, are called to discipleship. We are called to make God’s kingdom our priority, called to make the spreading of the Gospel and the sharing of God’s love our highest motivation in life. Often in this world people will ask the question, “What’s in it for me?” But when it comes to faith, when it comes to Jesus, that’s not at all the right question to be asking, because what we do for Jesus isn’t done out of a desire for personal gain, it’s done out of a response to what God, through Jesus, has already done for us. And when we make this choice, we are called to be all in. We give up the worldly, in order to gain the heavenly. Cousar, Gaventa, McCann, and Newsome tell us that, “Material possessions have a seductive appeal that can turn them quickly from being servants to being masters. They become excess baggage that make the journey with Jesus difficult to negotiate. Thus, at the outset, choices need to be made. ‘You cannot serve God and wealth’”. [4]
I spoke about my experience with the Royales today because, when it came to the Royales, I really was all in. I, and my friends in the corps, had each made personal choices to commit ourselves to making that corps to be as good as we could possibly make it. And each of us learned the lessons about the importance of giving your best effort when others are relying on you to do so. This kind of all in commitment is exactly what Jesus is talking about in today’s lesson. While we certainly aren’t actually going to be hating anyone! We will each be called to be all in with our choice to commit ourselves to the spreading of the Gospel and to the living of our lives in a way that glorifies God. In exchange for our commitment, we receive a promise that is almost impossible to comprehend. A promise to be loved and cared for by the creator of the universe. A promise that we will become part of a society of love and compassion and caring. A promise that we will become the person that God has always intended for us to be. And so, our question today is, are we accompanying, or are we following?
[1] Jeannine K. Brown, WorkingPreacher.org,. Commentary on Luke 1425-33
[2] Leon Morris, Tyndale New Testament Commentaries: Luke, Pg, 259
[3] David E. Garland, Zondervan Exegetical Commentary on the New Testament: Luke, Pg. 607
[4] Charles B. Cousar, Beverly R. Gaventa, J. Clinton McCann, & James D. Newsome, A Lectionary Commentary Based on the NRSV-Year C, Pg. 505
