April 27, 2025
It’s a phrase that we, as Christians, hear all the time; Christ-likeness. We are called to be Christ-like, but what does that really mean? I mean, to begin with, Jesus is perfect. We are not. So, how are we supposed to emulate something that is completely unattainable? Well, the first thing that we need to know is that God does not expect the impossible, and truthfully, Christ-likeness isn’t about perfect behavior anyway. I’ve spoken often about the fact that Christianity isn’t so much about what we do as it is about who we are, or more accurately, who we are in Christ, and the good news is that in last week’s and this week’s stories, Jesus has modeled for us a lot of the attributes that comprise Christ-likeness.
Last week we talked about Jesus washing the disciples’ feet and we discussed how lowly this job of washing feet was, to the point where Jewish law prohibited Jewish slave owners from forcing their Jewish slaves to perform this task. But this example, set by Jesus, was not intended to inspire us to go out and daily wash the feet of others, it was intended to teach us a foundational truth about love. And that is that love, real love, what the Greeks called ἀγάπη (a-ga-pay) love, is selfless. It is a love that denies self in the interest of serving others. Jesus wasn’t calling us to become professional foot washers, He was teaching us about the depth of love that we are called to have for others. This isn’t about actions or behaviors. This kind of selfless, extravagant love is an integral part of Jesus’ character; it’s WHO HE IS! And because Jesus is the exact representation of the Father, it’s who God is as well. And since we are called to Christ-likeness it’s an attribute that needs to be developed in our lives too.
And so, our first step in understanding Christ-likeness today is understanding that we need to allow the Spirit to grow within our hearts that same kind of love; a love where we are willing to completely lose ourselves in the act of loving and caring for others. This doesn’t mean that we don’t take care of ourselves; far from it. It simply means that, at the times that God puts people or circumstances in our path, and we find that the Spirit is leading us to love and care for that particular person or that particular circumstance, that we provide that care with a love that is willing to put the needs of others first, a love that is willing to “take a back seat” as it were, in order to provide for the needs of this person or circumstance that God has asked us to care for. The call… is to have this kind of love not just as a behavior, but for it to be a part of our character, just as it is a part of the character of Jesus.
But that was last week’s lesson. In our story today Jesus shows us two more attributes of His character that we are also called to grow in to.
One of the things that I really love about the Bible is the fact that it tells us real stories. There is no whitewashing of human foibles or frailties, people are not presented as heroes when they are not, and often the failings of humanity are presented with brutal honesty. The Bible does not present a rosy picture of faith, the Bible tells the truth, even when truly faithful people fail miserably. Over the last few weeks, the conduct of the disciples has generally been somewhat less than stellar. They have consistently failed to understand what Jesus has been trying to tell them about His impending death and resurrection. They have argued about who was the greatest, they have asked for preferential treatment from Jesus when He comes into His kingdom, and then as Jesus was arrested all of them, except for the disciple who Jesus loved, ran away and Peter denied Jesus three times. Not a great couple of weeks for the disciples.
Our story today tells us that after the crucifixion the disciples are in hiding “for fear of the Jews”. And not without reason. The Jewish authorities were determined to put an end to all of this “Messiah foolishness” and so it was quite reasonable for the disciples to be concerned that the authorities would be after them next. Couple this with the fact that the Romans were well known for their brutality when dealing with insurrections and that they made a practice of pursuing and crucifying every single follower of these rebellious leaders after the leaders had been captured and crucified. So, I think that it is fair to say that the caution exercised by the disciples was prudent. But there is one thing that the disciples, not surprisingly, were missing. Our story today tells us that Mary had already reported to them the fact that Jesus was alive and that she had seen Him and spoken with Him. Our parallel resurrection story in Luke tells us that the disciples “did not believe the women, because their words seemed to them like nonsense.”
Let me put this into perspective. Mary had been charged by Jesus Himself to go and to bring the Good News to the disciples that He was alive, and the disciples simply refused to believe. But I think that there is more going on here than just their fear of being tracked down and crucified by the authorities. There also must have been, especially in Peter, an anxiety over how they may potentially be received by the risen Jesus. After all, in spite of all of their protestations to the contrary, they had, all but one of them, abandoned Jesus, and Peter had denied Him three times, exactly as Jesus had told him he would do. It isn’t hard to imagine that they were expecting a stinging rebuke from Jesus at best. And yet as they were cowering behind closed and locked doors, Jesus appeared among them, and His first words to them were? Anyone? “Peace be with you”.
You see, a second part of Jesus’ character is that of being forgiving. Jesus, in offering peace to His disciples, was seeking to dispel all of their anxiety, all of their fear. The guilt which the disciples were feeling, while well founded, was going to interfere with the task that Jesus was about to place before them, and so forgiveness and restoration were essential. Jesus needed to give the disciples a clean slate, to restore them, and to reassure them that He still loved them every bit as much as He always had, and that He needed for them to let the past BE the past in order that they may step up and fulfill the mission that Jesus was about to place in front of them.
And so, after love, the second aspect of our character that we are called to develop in our quest to become more like Christ, is the aspect of being forgiving. Harboring guilt or harboring anger prevents us from loving one another. And if loving each other fulfills the law and the prophets, then we must be willing both to forgive in order that others may be made whole, AND to accept forgiveness in order to constructively deal with our guilt and to allow our relationships to be restored. In both of these instances, not only are we restoring those relationships but even more, we are witnessing to the world the truth of God’s love – that is, at its very core, reconciling, restoring, and forgiving.
And this brings us to the next part of our story today, where Jesus exhibits a third integral part of His character. After Jesus says a second time to the disciples “Peace be with you”, He then continues, “As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” The third part of Jesus’ character, this third attribute that we are to nurture and develop… is mission. I wrote a song several years ago that centered on the idea that God actively pursues relationship with His children. I called the song “Relentless Love”, and while the word relentless is usually used in a negative manner, as in something bad that just won’t go away, I couldn’t think of a better word to describe God’s love than relentless. Through all of our sins and all of our failings and all of our imperfections; through our moments of doubt and our moments of faithlessness, God is relentlessly faithful to love us and to call us to follow Him. This steadfast refusal to give up on His beloved children and His continual pursuit of reconciliation and restoration is another integral part of God’s character, and another core component of this Christ-likeness to which we are called.
Fiddes explains, “The reason why mission is of the very being of the church is that mission is not just imitating the sending forth of Jesus. It is a participation in the Father’s own sending of the Son… mission is rooted in the very being of the Triune God”. [1] And as mission is part of the character of Jesus, so we are called to be a missional people as well.
But let’s take a look at what we just learned. Why are we forgiving? We are forgiving because forgiveness is rooted in love. We can’t be loving if we are angry because of what someone else has done to us, and we can’t be loving if we are feeling guilty over the fact that we hurt someone. And so, forgiveness pours from a heart that loves as God loves. Forgiveness reconciles and restores loving relationships.
And we are also missional because of love. When we know from our personal experiences the love and grace and peace and joy that are so very much a part of the Christian experience, we want everyone that we know to experience this joy as well. At the heart of our quest for Christ-likeness is love, and one of the many ways that we show that love is helping others to find that same love for themselves. Now, we are imperfect people and so we won’t always find it easy to love as we are called, but God, through the Holy Spirit, will guide us and teach us how to love. And God will eagerly forgive our sins and imperfections in order that we may love as He loves in ways that are gracious and forgiving, and missional.
Taylor says, “Not only do we need to see the resurrected Christ, we need to realize that the world is looking to us to see Him. How are we showing resurrection to a desperate world? How are we offering [peace] instead of fear? Jesus sends us out, just as surely as he sent those cowering disciples.” [2] Love compels us to seek to bring to others the peace that we know can only come from a right relationship with God. And that peace can only be attained when one begins to follow Jesus; when one aligns themselves with Christ’s attributes of love, forgiveness, and mission.
Klink writes, “It is not the church but God who is the primary actor. Before the world even knew of its condition or could recognize its Creator, God ‘sent’ Himself to the world. God is the first and foundational missionary. The fact that God ‘sent’ is itself a declaration regarding the true nature of God. The actions of God are a reflection of the very life of God… that ‘God’s own life is Gospel shaped’. Just as God is rightly described as loving or sovereign, so also is He rightly described as missionary” [3]
Leaving the story of Thomas for another day, our section concludes with Jesus imparting the Holy Spirit on the disciples and then making a rather curious statement, “If you forgive anyone’s sins, their sins are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.” This passage might lead one to believe that we are empowered to forgive or to bind sin, but a proper reading of the Greek here gives us a better understanding of what is being taught. The eminent Greek scholar Dr. Julias R. Mantey translates this passage as “Whoever’s sin you have forgiven shall have already been forgiven them. Whoever’s sin you have not forgiven shall have already not been forgiven them”. Warren Wiersbe explains, “The disciples did not provide forgiveness, they proclaimed forgiveness on the basis of the message of the Gospel.” [4] It’s not that God has given the disciples, or us, authority to forgive or to bind sin, it is that we are called to provide the Good News of forgiveness of sins in Jesus’ Name, and that acceptance or rejection of our message has eternal consequences.
In light of this understanding, our responsibility to be bearers of the Good News, to SHOW the world the love of God, in Christ-like living that is loving, forgiving, and always reaching out to others, becomes enormously, enormously important.
My dear sisters and brothers in Christ, it is this to which we are called. As the Father sent Jesus, so Jesus sends us. Let us always be willing and faithful to answer that call.
[1] Paul Fiddes, “Mission and Liberty: A Baptist Connection” in Tracks and Traces: Baptist Identity in Church and Theology, (Carlisle: Paternoster, 2003) 249-73 (251)
[2] Jo Anne Taylor, APastorSings.com, John 2019-31-Thomas-Sylvester
[3] Edward W. Klink III, Zondervan Exegetical Commentary on the New Testament: John, Pg. 867
[4] Warren W. Wiersbe, Be Transformed, Pg. 167