Homily: December 29, 2024
There is a very famous movie that was released in 1990. In the movie, the McAllister family is preparing for a Christmas trip to Paris. The night before they are to depart, they all sit down to dinner, and their youngest son Kevin disrupts the meal. He is subsequently sent to the attic as punishment. During the night, they have a power outage and the next morning the family oversleeps, leading to a mad rush to make it to the airport on time. Somehow, in the rush, Kevin is left “Home Alone”. The family only discovers the fact that Kevin is missing when their flight is halfway across the Atlantic. The rest of the movie divides its time between Kevin’s story of thwarting a home invasion and his mom, Kate’s story of frantically trying to book a flight and return home to find her son.
Those who have seen the movie can understand Kate’s absolute panic when she realizes that she doesn’t know where Kevin is. This panic is where Mary and Joseph found themselves when, on the way home after their Passover trip to Jerusalem, they discovered the fact that Jesus wasn’t with them.
In today’s story, our English translation softens the language, telling us that Mary and Joseph were “anxiously searching”, but the word that Luke uses in the Greek is ὀδυνάω (odounow), and to give us a better sense of what Mary and Joseph were actually feeling, in the Biblical story of the rich man and the beggar Lazarus, after they had both died and the rich man was begging Abraham to have Lazarus put a drop of water on his tongue because he was in agony in the flames of hell, that word “agony” is translated from our word ὀδυνάω.
Yeah, Mary and Joseph were pretty upset, but I think that we need to know a little bit more about how this happened, because we can’t entirely blame Mary and Joseph. During a typical Passover, the population of Jerusalem would increase from about 50,000 people to about 150,000 people. Entire communities would travel to Jerusalem together in caravans because of the safety provided in numbers. In those caravans, the women and children would travel in front with the men and young men following behind. With Jesus being 12 years old, he was quite literally a tween. Young enough to travel with his mother and the children, but also old enough to travel with his father and the young men. So, it’s not hard to see how Mary may have thought that He was with Joseph and vice versa.
Upon discovering the fact that Jesus was missing, Mary and Joseph returned to Jerusalem, looking for Jesus, and eventually finding Him in the temple. Mary chides Jesus for staying behind in Jerusalem, saying “Your father and I have been searching for you”. Jesus answers “Why were you searching for me?” In the Greek, this is actually posed as a rhetorical question, a question with the assumption that they absolutely should have known where He was, even though they didn’t.
So, what do we see when we look at this passage? Do we see irresponsible parents? Do we see some kind of adolescent rebellion, or maybe a combination of both? No, I don’t think that we see any of that. As a parent, I suppose it may be a little difficult to reconcile Jesus’ actions with the fact of His absolute sinlessness, but the answer to all of this lies within the text itself where Jesus says, “Didn’t you know that I must be in my Father’s house?”
William Barclay says, “See how very gently but very definitely Jesus takes the name father from Joseph and gives it to God”[1]. Jesus’ here identifying God as His Father was something that was unique in Jewish literature. The Bible often refers to God as “our Father” or as “The Father of Israel”, but never had God ever been referred to as Father in such a personal way. At the tender age of 12 Jesus has already begun to develop an understanding of His singular and special relationship with the Father.
We need to realize that this understanding is something that Jesus wasn’t born with. His awareness of His relationship to the Father, His knowledge of the nature and scope of His mission, His understanding of His role as Lord and Savior, these are all things that developed as He grew. This is why Luke will later tell us that “Jesus grew in wisdom and in stature”. Though divine, Jesus was still fully human. And just like any other human, Jesus had to grow into an understanding of who He was and what He was called to do with His life.
And the time that Jesus spent with the rabbis in Jerusalem was an important part of that discovery process. Jesus was never going to receive a world class Jewish education in Nazareth but in Jerusalem He could sit and learn from the best and the brightest. Jesus had come to a point where He had realized that He needed to prioritize His relationship with the Father. This is why He stayed in Jerusalem to study, and this is why He was surprised when His parents didn’t know where He was. Jesus was making His first steps towards adulthood, and a part of that was taking advantage of the opportunity to stay and learn while He had the chance. But Jesus had one more year to go before He turned 13 and according to Jewish law, that is when He would become responsible for His own actions and could decide for Himself how He would practice His faith. And so, Luke tells us that Jesus returned with His parents to Nazareth and was obedient to them.
I believe that this story, the one and only story in the Bible about Jesus’ childhood, was included due to the importance of what happened in Jerusalem that year. It was a year that Jesus took a major step forward into adulthood, a year that His understanding of His unique and special relationship with the Father was refined, and a year that he recognized His mandate to prioritize His mission, even over His responsibilities to His own family. It was this attitude that would one day prompt Him to ask the question “Who is my mother and who are my brothers?” It was a year that Jesus would take a large step on the journey that would lead Him to fulfilling His calling.
Why we study the life of Jesus? What do we hope to gain in our studies? We study because we, as believers, are called to be like Jesus, and understanding His life and teaching is a critical part of the process of seeking Christ-likeness. And so, I’d like to close with a thought from Clinton E. Arnold. “What is important from Luke’s summary statement is that the life of Jesus reveals what a human life full of God’s Spirit and wisdom looks like.”[2] The recognition of a special relationship with the Father, the desire to expand on the knowledge of one’s faith, the prioritizing of God’s mission in one’s life, all of these things that we see in 12 year old Jesus are qualities that we, as God’s children, also would do well to nurture in our own lives.
My friend, Greg Monroe once said to me that prayer is not us asking God to do our will. Prayer is us asking God to incorporate us into His will. As we seek to follow Jesus and His example, may we also learn to grow into God’s will for us.
[1] William Barclay, “The Gospel of Luke” (Revised Edition), Pg. 30
[2] Clinton E. Arnold, “Exegetical Commentary on the New Testament: Luke”, Pg. 147